37 Year Old, with 2 Kids Ages 5 and 9 Who Had a Tummy Tuck with Liposuction(Flanks, Upper Abs, Thighs)

After two surgeries I am still largely unhappy. My love handles in spite of 2 surgeries still look significantly out of proportion to my waist. My stomach is still puffy. I also experience lower back pain when I walk for extended periods of time which I never experienced prior to surgery. I went in for lipo and got talked into a tummy tuck with lipo for better results. The outcome looks the same but my pocketbook is significantly lighter.

I am really second guessing this entire process. As I heal or maybe not heal my body looks really asymmetrical and I recently started bleeding at my incision line. I am convinced that a healthy lifestyle is/was a way better alternative

Navel looks weird to me, but I am going to hope that because it is only one week that I am still healing. I am still walking bent at the waist and if I walk or stand for longer than my body is able to tolerate, my back starts to hurt really bad.